![]() ![]() ![]() He’s a ham, makes a lot of racket, invites strangers in on conversations with acquaintances, makes a huge production of goofing around with the baby in stores. His voice is hilarious, and he’s aware it’s funny, uses it to his advantage. Think Charlie Day with a slightly deeper tone. His voice is expressive and loud he do great voice overs for cartoons. He’s always invited to parties, vacations, golf foursomes and shows. He is constantly joking around and teasing, laughing and having fun. He makes an impression on men because of his physicality and appearance, on women because he looks like a good time.īut his presence is due to his famous smile, which he is nicknamed for. Gay men cruise him at the mall and give me withering looks. Every waitress, hairdresser, and secretary gives me the stink eye while trying to engage him. He’s good looking and women make fools of themselves for his attention, some men want to fight him for this. His arms and shoulders are huge, so he takes up a lot of space. He plays every sport and his posture and strut reflect it. His presence, it seems, was deliberately manufactured rather than organic. He was a skinny, short kid a sidekick until his twenties. ![]() He isn’t tall (5’10), doesn’t have a deep voice and has the belly of an aging athlete. The tone of voice you will have then is the audio- version of presence. Forget your own self- consciousness and focus on this really cool news that you just want to share with everybody, convinced they will like it as much as you, even if you cant tell them personally but have to do it by microphone. If you want to try what it is like to have that presence, just volunteer to make an general annoucement most people would be interested to hear, for instance, volunteer to announce over the mike at a wedding that the open bar will now open. Maybe they need our help, maybe they want to tell us something, maybe they just really like we’re there because they like people, period. The Jack Blokes of this world simply radiate that they are confident, attractive, and that they would like to interact with us. We feel it if someone notices us, want something from us, right? If they look at us with some intensity, we notice them and we, in turn, look closer at that person to see what it is he wants with us. Imho, presence is something really simple. ![]()
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